Men: Don't Feel Worried About Your Woman's New Sex Toy

Many men feel anxious and uncomfortable when their woman gets a toy. I am here to tell them why they shouldn't feel that way.

It’s funny when I hear that many of my girlfriends' boyfriends freak out and get upset when they discover a dildo or a sex toy in their girlfriend’s drawer. But why is that? Why would someone freak out about sex toys? In fact why would a guy get anxious and upset when he knows his partner is using such a toy to pleasure herself?

Although many men deny it, it is true that some men feel upset and jealous of the sex toy. The fact that his partner is using a sex toy makes him feel less of a man; that he cannot satisfy his partner or make her orgasm. To all the guys out there I just want to say one thing: There is no comparison between the real thing and a toy and here are a few reasons why men should not be freaked out if their partner is using a sex toy:

1. Sex toys are fake. Although girls like using dildos, vibrators, massagers and many other toys, there is no substitute for a penis. Women love the physical interaction with a man; his touch and his penis penetrating them. In fact the thought of it is arousing enough for many women.

2. Sex toys don’t provide love and closure. No matter how good a sex toy is, it can never give women a feeling of love or closure. Trust me fellas when I say this: We like to be kissed, touched and loved. Sex is not about just orgasm. The fact that you are working us and caressing our bodies gives us a great pleasure and a warm feeling.

3. Sex toys can be used during foreplay. We appreciate it and love it when you use that toy on us before intercourse. When my boyfriend bought me my first glass dildo I was so turned on and at the same time I felt so sweet and romantic at the same time. When you know that your man cares about your pleasure and wants you to enjoy yourself, it makes you even much closer to him both emotionally and sexually.

4. Toy movements are restricted. What I mean here is that there are only so many ways you can use a toy. Although it’s true that you can use your dildo in doggy position, it’s kind of hard due to physical restriction of the arms. There is absolutely no comparison between having a man doing you doggy style or spoon and doing it with a dildo, it’s just not the same.

5. It could make your sexual experience even better. Yes, you heard me correctly. For the girls out there who like to experiment and try anal play try to have a butt plug in your butt when having sex with your partner. Guys, I guarantee you will like the feeling.

6. Sex toys are not just for women. Women are not the only people who use sex toys. There are many toys out there for men such as: prostate massagers, cock rings, pocket pussies, and anal toys. I recommend you to check out EdenFantasys’ collection of great toys and pick which one you like. I know many guys are anxious or feel uncomfortable to try such toys, but trust me there is no harm in experimenting. In fact, it might be more enjoyable than you think.

7. Why compare yourself to a toy? A sex toy will just be a sex toys and the sole purpose is to induce pleasure and there is no harm about that. If you think about it, it’s the same when women or men fantasize. It’s perfectly natural and it doesn't mean that you want to be with a particular person or want to do some specific act. It just simply means that you are a healthy human being with natural desires. So please, fellas, don’t freak out about it!

In the end, I would like to say to all men: We love your dicks and you should not worry if we use sex toys. You should not even compare yourself to a toy because there is no substitute to the real deal. I hope all of you have a great sexual life and please your partners and yourself as well. After all, what’s the point of sex if not for love and having fun and pleasure?

Come see what you look like!

I was folding up some laundry. He walked past and then stopped suddenly. He looked at me intently. Bullet Vibrator and Bullet Eggs are small size sex toys and resemble bullet and egg.

“You just look so beautiful! Sorry, I don’t mean to sound so surprised!”

“Come over here and see what you look like!”Our shop provides you with various types of anal beads.

He took me to the laptop and this is what he played…

Apparently the actress – Dorothy Malone was so nervous, they had to do several takes of her pouring out the drinks because her hands were shaking so much. In the end Bogey does the pouring. She actually looks quite assured to me.

He showed me another clip after ‘a different one of me’ apparently.

It was a girl – maybe late teens – also coming on to Bullet Vibrator.

Should I be flattered that he sees me in black and white? Probably not – but very flattered that he sees me in other women anal beads– especially when they are soooo pretty ; )

ps I really am not always coming on to him.
At least not when I’m asleep anyway…

Top 3 Dildos

Dildos in fact go back to ancient times and are distinct by the fact that they look and feel like a penis and are used for penetration. Some people categorise butt plugs and vibrators into the dildo umbrella term, but these are in fact not true dildos.

Here is a rundown of the top 5 best-selling dildos and their key features for ultimate stimulation:


1.Realistic Dildos Some people say that the most sensitive sex organ in the body is the mind. Realistic dildos are designed to look and feel as closely matched as possible to a penis to really get your imagination racing. If you close your eyes you could be handling the real thing. Many feature a suction cup for hands-free realistic dildo fun.

2.Glass dildos combine art with sex with a new range of toys that look great on the mantelpiece as well as being incredibly stimulating in the bedroom. Usually glass dildos are made from a medical grade of borosilicate glass; this is extremely hard glass that will definitely not break or shatter, is non-toxic and can withstand incredible temperatures, making them very very safe.

When using a glass dildo you have the choice of warming it or cooling it down for an extra special sensation. And top that with the beautiful design options and unique textures available, you have one of the best designed dildos out there. So jump on the glass dildo bandwagon and get yourself one today!

3.Double DildosIf you feel like a little more action from your dildo then why not consider a vibrating dildo? Some dildos have small bullet vibrators hidden inside them, giving extra thrills to your dildo play. These products are still very realistic but have that something extra for when you want to increase the passion. The best-selling vibrating dildos are the Infinity by BMS and the We-Vibe II Sex Toy. Both are elegant and also a very effective option to add excitement in the bedroom.

Some people are dildo fanatics and need to go bigger and better to achieve dildo nirvana. There is a huge range of monster dildos and extreme dildos out there for the adrenaline junkie dildo-user.